Mertens Steven Profile

Because of the lack of honesty and sincerity. This profile will self-destruct in .... 3 .... 2 .... 1 .... minutes, days, weeks, years ....

** What I am not looking for is a "hookup", a night stand or a "cyber sex". So, if that's what you want, I do not judge you ... but I'm the wrong man for you. **

I have a brain and I know how to hold a smart conversation. I have a witty sense of humor. I like to laugh and make others laugh. Other people appreciate my company. Love the outdoors, everything on the water, the beach, like the woods, camping. I love kayaking, a fire at night indoors or out, watching the stars, a nice glass of wine or a cold beer. I like getting up early and having coffee on the porch in the morning. Enjoy a good movie either outdoors or at home. I like to dance when I go out or just in the kitchen when good music is on. I'm more comfortable in a good pair of jeans and a t-shirt. I am a very social person. That does not mean I have to be with others, I just like people in general. But I also enjoy my quiet time alone or at home cuddling with someone I'm worried about.

Money and "things" mean very little to me. "Things" have a way of coming between people. The more things you need to take care of the less time you have for the people you love. I do not need and I am not looking for someone to take care of me. I am able to do it myself. I want to have someone in my life.

In search of honesty first and foremost. Someone to be my friend first. A sweet woman who likes to treat a man like a man, but also knows when not to do it. A good sense of humor, quick wit. Someone who likes to be around others sometimes, but also likes to spend time with me talking or watching a movie. Someone who does not need me or someone else to supplement them or make them happy. You must be happy with yourself before you can be happy in another society...